EDITORIAL. In the search for ideas on how to simplify life, I decided to do some reading. My chosen research method is simple: a Google search and I would only read what is on the first two pages of results. As I said: simplify.

So I googled “simplify your life”

Now that I have been reading on the subject, I am starting to realise it is a big subject. With lots of variation in motivation and meaning. Most of the ideas seem to follow some common sense. Many are also easy to avoid or put in the “get-it-done-when-I-have-time” list. Like going to the dentist or choosing a new mortgage lender. I already have a long list of and do not want to add to it.

Here are some themes that resonated with me initially and reoccur regularly in my (totally biased) research:

  • Declutter – Both mental and physical clutter is a cause of anxiety and bad procrastination apparently. Some healthy decluttering is a good thing and methods are plentiful – as in these links here, here and here for example. And just to be clear, not all procrastination is bad and can be good for productivity. I personally rather enjoy some procrastination, just try not to over do it.So the decluttering helps with making decisions by simply having less to chose from, and leads to less time making the decision and more time doing what it is you originally wanted to spend more time doing. That is the aim anyway. By the way Mark Zuckerberg is a fan.
  • Unplug (even if for a little while) – Spending less time using social media, email and other connective technology is good if you want to speak to the person next to you. Unplugging is also linked to clutter apparently as we fill our time with more connections . And FOMO. And insomnia. Not to mention the dreaded “bill shock” while travelling – pertinent for upcoming trip we are going on.
  • Learning to say “no” – Saying no to doing things can be really hard – yet it is probably one of the simplest ways to increase your time available to spend doing what you want to do or controlling who you spend your time with. Obvious, but for many of us really hard to do ( See FOMO above as a case in point). Items 8 and 9 in this list seem a good place as any to start. I have a suspicion this is one we can all work on, and learn to do it gracefully.

My first conclusion is that just starting is a good thing. The motivation for wanting to simplify is probably a big part of where to start. There are always very compelling statements in the reading I did about “wanting to spend more time with family and loved ones” or similar. I also found many of the suggestions being spruiked related to time. It appears we are generally not good at managing our time, such an important and finite resource, let alone adhering to a simple work life balance strategy.

Maybe this is the point. It is so simple we discount the potential impact of some of these changes or ideas almost immediately – “sounds good but probably won’t work for me because my life is too complicated already.” There is the challenge – Start somewhere.

I need some pointers on how to start. Luckily there are plenty on the first two pages of my Google search results. I think my favourite on the first two pages of results is this one from Zen Habits – I am going to use this list as a starting point for two reasons – It was number 1 in the results list and I like the idea of being more zen.

In truth I am not advocating for people to completely disconnect, say no to every invitation and exist with a wardrobe of a single colour and style. It’s more about learning about what makes you happy, or provides stimulation in a way that maintains that happiness as opposed to diminishes it.

My next piece will take a closer look at how to wade through all the information and extract a actionable practical approach for myself and my family.

By David Parkington, Geographer and Technologist 

EDITORIAL:

How often do you think: “I wish my life was simpler”. At various times in my life I have had this feeling and feel a few people around me think the same way.

The motivation for wanting to simplify your life can be driven by so many aspects of your life: health, experience, conscience, financial, work life balance and many more. The first thing I realise is how important my time is. Choosing what to do with my time is important and I think it should be for everyone. I decided to do a bit of research on “simplifying your life”. I will talk about this in a subsequent blog post – for those that are interested.

My motivation for thinking about this is related to my time and wanting to use it in a way that is beneficial to me and my family. We are going travelling as a family for about ten weeks – a great use of our time in my opinion. One of the things I have noticed as a family is our daily routines are getting more complicated. We get busier and seem to be doing more things on a day to day basis. We end up having to remember more things to take, confirm, pay or juggle. It is sometimes stressful. And not always enjoyable. So we are going away and have an opportunity to break some of these habits and rethink some of our approaches to the traps we fall into on a regular basis that stop us doing interesting things that we will remember for all the right reasons.

I went kayaking with my 5 year old son on Wednesday – I look after him for the day as he is not in kindergarten on this day. I have a list of chores to do that will take me weeks. But I didn’t care – it was a perfectly still warm morning. I didn’t take a phone so I have no photos to embellish this blog but I really don’t care. We saw a large smooth stingray and followed it around for 15 minutes while it was feeding in the sand below us in clear water. We have awesome memories of a day we shared an adventure.

My son will go to school next year and I will lose the Wednesdays I get to spend with him and do whatever we want. He will move on and develop new interests and that is great but I don’t want to waste the remaining few Wednesdays that I have with him. We also want our trip to be about us doing things together as much as possible and coming home with a great collection of memories. So simplifying life is a way I can keep some of that time with him next year onwards and keep sharing adventures with hime for a little longer.

Send me your ideas on simplifying your life…and await Part 2.

By David Parkington, Geographer and Technologist